When Qin Hao proposed to Yi Nengjing, he said," I will never have a mistress. If I have a mistress, I will kill myself."
The marriage proposal ceremony did not cause much heated discussion. Qin Hao was not popular at that time, but there was an uproar at their wedding the following year.
Su Mang, then editor-in-chief of a fashion magazine, released a photo of their wedding, with Gao Yuanyuan, the killer, as a reference, sparking a fierce discussion about Yi Nengjing's face.
What is even more fascinating to the public is which point Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing, who do not seem to be in the same world, match.
Later, after watching the variety show "mother-in-law and mother", everyone found that the two really matched each other. One was "acting like heaven and earth" and the other was specializing in "making heaven and earth".
They made rapid progress from meeting and falling in love to getting married and having children.
We met in 2013.
Propose in 2014.
Get married in 2015.
She had a daughter in 2016.
The two met from a charity party when Yi Nengjing was 45 years old, divorced for five years, and Qin Hao, 35, single and unmarried.
It was Yi Nengjing that Qin Hao actively pursued.
Yi Nengjing experienced all kinds of things before and was very clear about her feelings. She decided that the next person must be the last one in this life. She didn't want to try again. At the same time, she was ready to die single.
So when Qin Hao pursued her, Yi Nengjing told her situation directly. There was a 10-year-old age difference between the two. She had a vigorous emotional history. She loved her son very much and would not give him 100% love.
Since there is no possibility of being together and getting married, there is no need to continue to waste time to reject Qin Hao.
Yi Nengjing so determined words did not scare off Qin Hao, in the early morning she received a text message from Qin Hao.
What is his age? he used to date a girlfriend who was 10 years younger, and finally broke up.
I also asked Yi Nengjing to come over tomorrow to discuss the issue of marriage.
You know, at this time, they have only known each other for a few days, and they have already begun to talk about marriage.
In this way, the two began to fall in love with a big gap in age, career, fame and experience.
When she wanted to see her parents, Yi Nengjing was very nervous and thought that she would be asked to leave Qin Hao by her future parents-in-law.
Qin Hao's parents are very traditional people.
There are many difficulties in the differences between the north and the south, the age difference, and Yi Nengjing's past emotional experience.
Qin Hao is also ready to fight a "protracted war" to convince his parents.
However, Qin's father and mother's attitude surprised Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing. They were not old-fashioned people, but very transparent and enlightened. They respected Qin Hao's choice.
Qin Ma also seriously educated Qin Hao that Yi Nengjing had already had a marriage, and if she really decided to be together, she should be responsible to the end and not let her down and hurt her.
When Yi Nengjing went to Qin Hao's house for the first time, Qin Hao's parents made a big table dish to welcome her.
They did not get to the bottom of Yi Nengjing's past, let alone dislike her, but told her many shortcomings of Qin Hao, hoping that she could tolerate Qin Hao more.
Qin's father blessed them at the wedding, which was very touching.
He said to Qin Hao, although you are younger than Yi Nengjing, but you are a man, you have to bear more, they will treat Xiaojing as a daughter to love.
It was difficult for Yi Nengjing to prepare for pregnancy after marriage, and her parents-in-law were also very considerate of her, feeling that it didn't matter if she didn't have a baby.
Qin parents give Yi Nengjing enough attention and recognition, is really regard her as a daughter-in-law family, distressed her experience, Yi Nengjing past deficiencies and regrets are also being slowly made up.
The relationship between Yi Nengjing and her mother-in-law is called a model of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and their relationship is very good.
Mother-in-law never meddled in the affairs of the couple, and even became the glue of their relationship.
Qin Hao is a straight man who does not understand amorous feelings. Qin Ma reminded Qin Hao to be romantic and boast more about Yi Nengjing. Qin Hao asked very cooperatively, Mom, where is our ancestral grave? smoke, I am so happy.
One word amused everyone.
Couples who were once mismatched in the eyes of the public were so in tune, and there was a feeling of falling into one thing at a time.
Yi Nengjing is a little pretentious and loves to act like a spoiled child, and her desire for expression is very exuberant. She usually likes to say some sour love words to Qin Hao, and she always dislikes that Qin Hao is not romantic enough.
Qin Hao is an anti-correction person, often blocked by a word so that Yi Nengjing can not speak.
Yi Nengjing complained that Qin Hao was more patient with dogs than with her.
Qin Hao: because it doesn't talk as much as you.
Yi Nengjing: then it doesn't talk every day, will you marry it?
Qin Hao: nonsense, I can't marry him even if he talks.
Yi Nengjing asked Qin Hao to call her baby or baby.
Qin Hao: baby, would you like to be quiet for a while?
Yi Nengjing's eyelids were swollen by mosquitoes and sajiao said she wanted to go to the hospital.
Qin Hao said she made a mountain out of a molehill and that there were no life problems in his family as a result of being bitten by mosquitoes.
After giving birth to her daughter, Yi Nengjing has not yet regained her figure and often feels anxious about her figure and appearance.
She asked Qin Hao if she thought the girls outside were beautiful when she saw herself.
Qin Hao: there are beautiful girls outside, and they are really beautiful. You can't be beautiful, and you won't let others be beautiful.
Yi Nengjing was born in a family that favors sons over daughters, which is also a thorn in her heart.
After giving birth to her daughter rice grain, she told Qin Hao that in an only-child family like his family, parents (parents-in-law) loved rice grains very much and had no idea of favouring sons over daughters at all.
Qin Hao: they are all party members, and that's what they were educated when they were young.
Anyway, no matter what tricks Yi Nengjing throws, Qin Hao can easily catch it. She seems to be confused about amorous feelings and does not understand romance, but in fact she is responding to her in a relaxed and humorous way, rather than letting her sing a monologue alone. Yi Nengjing is amused by Qin Hao every time.
Qin Hao once told a joke that on Yi Nengjing's birthday, he wrote her a greeting card with eight big words: if you don't do it, I will live up to it.
In reality, in the face of Yi Nengjing's "acting" and "hypocrisy", Qin Hao told her very clearly:
Whatever you want me to do, you can confidently propose that I can do it and I will do it. But I don't want to do it, and I will make it clear that you don't need to feel guilty, we are equal.
She loves to work, he is willing to take it, and can catch it, a good marriage does not have to be humble, they are equal to each other.
Qin Hao prefers to show his love with actions rather than romance in his mouth.
He knows the bitterness and difficulty of Yi Nengjing's early years, and he also understands that her emotional worries about gain and loss do not have sense of security, and he knows better the outlet of her soul.
He promised not to let the family worry about money.
Yi Nengjing wants to be recognized and respected.
Qin Hao announced that her relationship would be on the red carpet of the Berlin Film Festival, which was focused by the media and audiences. Soon after being together, Qin Hao introduced Yi Nengjing to her relatives and friends.
Yi Nengjing likes romance and has a princess dream.
Qin Hao carefully planned the marriage proposal ceremony, proposed to her under the witness of relatives and friends, and gave her a grand and romantic wedding.
Although Qin Hao is 10 years younger than Yi Nengjing, she looks more mature and stable than Yi Nengjing.
Similarly, Yi Nengjing treats Qin Hao the same way. Yu Qin Hao, Yi Nengjing is not only a lover, but also the person who can understand and understand him best.
The time when I met Yi Nengjing was the time when Qin Hao was most confused about his career and future. I didn't know if it was right for him to stick to the path of literary film.
In order to survive, in order to support his family, he also began to think about taking some not so high-quality scripts.
Yi Nengjing told him that he didn't know how much she envied him and how much she wanted to be an actress like him.
You can work with excellent directors, you can go to foreign film festivals, and you can play all the roles you want for money.
Yi Nengjing's words made Qin Hao feel that he was no longer lonely.
It is also because of his persistence and strict choice of scripts that there are subsequent excellent works.
In fact, Yi Nengjing has brought great help to Qin Hao's career.
Every time Qin Hao has a new work, Yi Nengjing publishes small compositions on social media, describing Qin Hao's preparation for the role and the process of entering the role in a delicate style, taking the audience to appreciate Qin Hao from her perspective and helping Qin Hao gain popularity.
Qin Hao is not good at expressing and managing contacts, and this is precisely Yi Nengjing's advantage. she can communicate and express, and is good at dealing with interpersonal relationships.
It is said that a director once wanted to invite Qin Hao to act in a movie. Qin Hao just pushed it off without a schedule, which is not a big deal.
But when Yi Nengjing found out, she took the initiative to add the director's Wechat, sincerely explained to him why, and specially flew from Taipei to Beijing to have dinner with him, expressing apologies and paving the way for next cooperation.
It can be said that Yi Nengjing is his strongest assistant and public relations in Qin Hao's career.
In recent years, Yi Nengjing has mainly focused on her family and taking care of her daughter, and her career has slowed down a lot. On the contrary, Qin Hao is in the rising period of her career and works hard outside.
Qin Hao said that Yi Nengjing is a writer and a successful actress. Anyone can earn money, but she left the job opportunity to him. Compared with her hard work of raising children at home, he works outside.
He never forgot Yi Nengjing's dedication and sacrifice.
Truly admire, respect and worship Yi Nengjing from the bottom of her heart. Yi Nengjing began to work at the age of 16 to support her family and did what he could not do in his whole life.
Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing do not seem to be from the same world, but they are the most complementary people.
They also achieve the respect, understanding and tolerance that their partners should do, and no matter where they are, they always look at each other with appreciation.
Yi Nengjing once asked Qin Hao what was the right thing to do so far.
Qin Hao replied that he chose an actor as his lifelong career and married a childhood idol as his wife.
Yi Nengjing's answer to the same question is not to marry you, but to become a better person after marrying you.
This may be the meaning given to people by a beautiful and harmonious marriage, so that those who love each other are happy and become better themselves.
Now they have been holding hands for 10 years, and the relationship is still sweet.
Bless them.
