Recently, Wu Jing's "spoiled wife" was hit by a car that turned over, causing a lot of hustle and bustle. Everyone said that he was straight, male chauvinist, emotionally unstable, irritable, and even misogynistic.
Many netizens went to Xie Nan's social platform to persuade her to run away and get divorced.
However, the little wife Xie Nan, who was "insulted and hurt", wrote a sincere composition about the love between the two, explained Wu Jing's personality, explained the practice of marriage, and proved what high EQ is. This wave of strength guardians, not only saved Wu Jing's face, but also gathered a wave of fans for himself.
Today we will look at the cause and effect of this matter again.
The cause was that an old variety show attended by two people was pulled out, and Wu Jing cooked noodles and ate it without calling his wife to enjoy it, which made Xie Nan unhappy; then Wu Jing fried large intestine, and Xie Nan said he would eat a little more, otherwise he would have a bad stomach. This sentence made Wu Jing angry and disrelished Xie Nan. There are a lot of such things behind. For example, Xie Nan wants two people to chat together. Wu Jing does not respond. Xie Nan is angry and burst into tears several times.
Of course, there is Wu Jing's "straight", but there is also Xie Nan's hypocrisy.
Most of the comments were criticized by women, saying that his male chauvinism was suffocating, while male netizens rarely spoke out.
That's enough to tell the story.
Wu Jing was born in Beijing in 1974, typical of the post-70s generation, Beijing men; Xie Nan was born in Hefei, Anhui Province in 1983. Ten years apart.
In the past, it was often said that three years is a generation. to look at it this way, there is a gap of three generations between Wu Jing and Xie Nan.
Of course this is a bit of an exaggeration.
However, it is undeniable that the post-70s generation, as a generation born in the period of social transformation, men still have a strong idea of male chauvinism, which is a relic of the old era.
I was also a 70-year-old. I remember when I was in college, a female classmate told me that a boy chased her and asked her out for dinner, then bought her a cell phone and told her that we would get married five years later. Then the boy almost never showed up again.
The female classmate was puzzled and asked for confirmation many times before she finally figured out: what they mean is that I have already hired you, and you will wait for me to marry you five years later.
There are no flowers, chocolates, acquaintance anniversaries, 999 roses, candlelight dinners, violin playing, all the pursuit.
After figuring it out, the female classmate was frightened and hurriedly returned her cell phone, explained that she didn't like the way she was hired, and then turned and ran away in the boy's surprised eyes.
I laughed for a long time. In what era, there is still this way of pursuit. Why didn't he hire the three media six to ask for marriage, and then agree to come back after the top student in high school to marry him?!
Come back to the married life of Wu Jing and Xie Nan.
Xie Nan revealed in the program that when she received an olive branch from Wu Jing, she did not agree at first, but later she received Wu Jing's affection and learned more about his character, so she obediently agreed and did not let Wu Jing chase him.
A post-70s straight man, good to people, it is love you are not discussed, as for romance, I am sorry there is no. Ha ha.
Is it true that straight men don't deserve good love?
Of course not.
Wu Jing's romance is reflected in his straightness.
Remember, the rumor of the end of the world in 2012, when there were rumors about the end of the world, but Xie Nan still went out to work, Wu Jing sent her a message: if you are not here, then why die together?
Xie Nan can't laugh or cry, but she likes it!
This is the romance of straight men.
At that time, Xie Nan had a deep understanding of this, and he accepted it. She does not love Wu Jing just because he is straight. Of course, Wu Jing does not love her because of her hypocrisy.
This is the basis for two people to love each other.
It may also be because of love for each other, so Wu Jing in marriage more unscrupulous development of their own "straight" and "impatient", true temperament, do not turn, because he knows Xie Nan will always tolerate him.
There is always such a person in the world who will always be waiting for you.
Of course, Xie Nan and Wu Jing come together on the show, this matter is generally detached from the stereotyped daily life, Xie Nan wants to create some romance at this moment, in fact, it is not difficult to understand.
However, Wu Jing forgot Xie Nan's instructions to him before agreeing to participate in the program, and blamed the program for too long. Wu Jing accidentally exposed his true temperament.
Wu Jing has always disliked those who "pretend". It has always been his principle to be sincere to others.
Before he became a 10 billion director, Wu Jing was straightforward, thus offending many people. After success, the halo added to him, and he had proud capital and further developed this kind of directness.
The family is the freest and most private space, so at least be careful outside; at home, you must put down all disguises and let go of yourself. In the past, Xie Nan must have given Wu Jing this freedom and embraced all the straight male characteristics of Wu Jing.
So, Wu Jing is happy.
On the other hand, Xie Nan, since he is in love and has chosen Wu Jing, then he needs tolerance.
To some extent, Wu Jing is also like Xie Nan's son, an adult son. Many adult men in China will be like that child who does not grow up in life, and they would rather remain innocent for the rest of their lives.
On the other hand, Chinese women also have the most generous motherhood. Many Chinese wives assume the responsibility of being husband and mother at the same time.
Moreover, for a husband who is more capable than his wife, he still has the right to act like a child.
Do you think so?
If you choose your husband, you should still be unhappy. It is a problem that you can't choose well or get along well, regardless of other problems.
Marriage is a spiritual practice, if there is love between two people, but also unhappy, that is the practice is not in place.
Go ahead and fix it.
Husband and wife have love, live at the top of the pyramid and can have anything they want. If Xie Nan is still not satisfied with his marriage, he really does not know the blessing.
So, in the final analysis, Xie Nan is rational, she will not divorce.
Finally, I remember Zhang ailing's words: life is a gorgeous robe covered with fleas.
Behind the bright and beautiful, there is always an unknown secret, perhaps unbearable.
Everyone must accept their own life.
This is my life.
