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Fan Ming is a famous actor in the entertainment circle. He has participated in film and television works such as "the Story of the Cooking Class", "the Swordsman", "the Story of the Police Station", "the Mobile phone", "the Beautiful contract", "Dad is too embarrassed", "I really want to make you Happy", "Hello Prosecutor" and so on. Won the Spring Swallow Award, Golden Star Award and other honors.
Fan Ming, who has a successful career, is also emotionally happy. His wife is Li Ling, and the two married in 1997. Li Ling had a failed marriage with a son.
In this marriage, Fan Ming and his wife Li Ling help each other, love as before, treat his stepson as his own, and warm his stepson's growth with affection, which has become his pride now.
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Fan Ming, born in 1964 to a military family in Xuzhou, Jiangsu Province, is very strict in family education. When he was a child, Fan Ming liked singing and dancing very much. he was also a literary activist in the school. he often took part in art shows and was the little star of the school.
After graduating from high school, Fan Ming didn't go to art colleges and directly entered a factory as a worker. At that time, workers were also a stable and decent job, but Fan Ming was not satisfied with the status quo. He always wanted to pursue the stage.
Living in a boring factory, Fan Ming is also studying because he envies writers who are full of poetry books. When he has nothing to do, Fan Ming will read books and write some thoughts and other things.
A few years later, the amateur performance team of Jiangsu Lianyungang military District was recruited. Fan Ming thought it was an opportunity, so he went to apply for the job and was successfully admitted. At that time, Fan Ming was not an actor but a screenwriter, wrote some works from time to time, and wrote and directed some sketches.
Although he did not perform on the stage at that time, the work behind the scenes also allowed Fan Ming to accumulate a lot of experience and let him understand how an actor can play a role on the stage and how to figure out a role.
It was precisely because of those years that Fan Ming established his acting skills and laid a solid foundation for his future acting career. In 1989, Fan Ming successfully joined the frontline repertory troupe of the Nanjing military region. It was only then that he came to the stage from behind the scenes.
Because the foundation of a few years ago, Fan Ming also played well on the stage, won the recognition of the audience and the drama troupe, any good program or performance, there will be Fan Ming's figure.
Once, the troupe held a performance and knew that Fan Ming had written a screenplay, and the leader also wanted him to do a program. It is precisely because of this activity that Fan Ming met Li Ling, the love of his life.
Li Ling also participated in this event. At that time, she was a fashion editor and wrote a lot of manuscripts for the TV station. Heard that Li Ling is a very good literary editor, which moved Fan Ming's heart, this heart is simple to want to meet, exchange and study.
So Fan Ming asked about Li Ling and found her. It is said that Fan Ming, who stretched out his hand and did not hit the smiley face, was also appreciated by Li Ling, who not only answered many of Fan Ming's questions, but also taught him many writing methods and ideas, opening up a new world of inspiration for Fan Ming.
They share the same interests and hobbies, which makes their relationship become acquainted with each other very quickly. In addition to the intersection at work, they also meet in private, eating, partying and so on.
At a party, everyone went bowling together, and it was at this time that Li Ling walked into Fan Ming's heart. At that time, Li Ling's bowling posture was very elegant, which deeply attracted Fan Ming and envied him very much. Because Fan Ming doesn't know anything, in his own words, he is a "rustic hat".
In order to have a relationship with Li Ling, Fan Ming also worked very hard to find an opportunity to chat up, and even to consult Li Ling. Not only that, Fan Ming boldly invited Li Ling to dance. Li Ling didn't say much about Fan Ming's invitation. after all, she was a friend, and it was nothing to dance.
However, Fan Ming did not take Li Ling as a friend, but wanted to marry Li Ling home. After this meeting, Fan Ming also left the contact information of Li Ling. Fan Ming frequently contacted Li Ling and asked her to be cold and warm. As an experienced person, Li Ling gradually realized that something was wrong and knew what Fan Ming meant.
Although Fan Ming was very enthusiastic and nice, Li Ling did not want to get in touch with him directly after she learned of his idea and slowly avoided Fan Ming. Even though Li Ling is not interested in herself, Fan Ming still pays close attention to her.
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On one occasion, Fan Ming really could not help it. After all, Li Ling was always lukewarm and bravely expressed her love to him. Li Ling refused Fan Ming's confession directly, saying, "I had a failed marriage and a child, even six years older than you. You can find something better. There is no need to waste time on me."
Li Ling's refusal did not make Fan Ming give up, but more insistently. He knew that only by working harder and doing more could he move Li Ling's heart.
As for Fan Ming's choice, many people around him were persuading him, because at that time, there were still many rumors. After all, Fan Ming was still married for the first time, and Li Ling was older than Fan Ming. However, Fan Ming had long been firm in his love. Even if everyone opposed him, he would go forward and pursue Li Ling.
Apart from his work, Fan Ming spends almost all his time on Li Ling. Although he is pursuing girls, Fan Ming will never deliberately create a person or image. As usual, he will pay more attention to care and care. When he saw that Li Ling was in a bad mood, Fan Ming would try every means to amuse her by walking, telling jokes and acting ugly.
At first, Li Ling rejected Fan Ming dangling around her, but after a period of time, Li Ling gradually got used to his existence, was moved by Fan Ming's sincerity a little bit, and slowly responded to Fan Ming.
Seeing Li Ling changing little by little, Fan Ming also worked harder. He knew that everything was developing for the better. At the moment of confirming the relationship, Li Ling asked again, "I am a woman with a failed marriage and a child. Are you sure you don't regret this?"
For Li Ling, Fan Ming is from the heart of love, he firmly responded: love a person to accept everything about her, I don't care about your past, will treat the child as his own.
Fan Ming's words deeply moved Li Ling, and the two began to fall in love. For Li Ling, Fan Ming is very doting and treats his children as his own. Even if he is not a father, he gives fatherly love to Li Ling's children.
In 1997, the two, who had known each other for only four months, entered the marriage hall hand in hand. Before she got married, Li Ling was still a little worried, but Fan Ming promised again: I love you, so I will accept everything from you. Your son is my son, and I will prop up the sky for you.
For this marriage, many people are not optimistic, but Fan Ming does not care, because he knows that he is true love for Fan Ming, and he will spend the rest of his life to treat Li Ling, use his love to warm Li Ling and comfort her unhappy past.
After spending time with Fan Ming, Li Ling was very happy, Fan Ming was also very satisfied, and his stepson's behavior moved Fan Ming even more. After marriage, the family sat together, and the stepson Han Leng called directly: dad.
For his stepson Han Leng, Fan Ming was very tolerant and understanding, and instead of saying, "if you don't want to call your father, call your uncle. When you want to call your father, you can change your tune, or call him uncle all the time."
But Fan Ming did not expect that Han Leng's "Dad" really surprised and moved Fan Ming. For the stepson's support, Fan Ming also made a decision, that is, must double the stepson, treat him as his own son, so as to be worthy of Han Leng's "father".
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Because of the age gap, this also makes Fan Ming and his stepson have an estrangement, after all, the age is placed here, but in order to accompany his stepson to grow up, Fan Ming can only change himself, starting from understanding Han Leng's interests and hobbies.
After a period of time, Fan Ming also seems to have become an "old child", and Han Leng successfully played together. Looking at their happy appearance, Li Ling was also very gratified. She felt that they were not like father and son, but more like good friends.
The happiness of his family also made Fan Ming begin to reach the peak in his acting career. He has successively starred in film and television works such as the Story of the Cooking Class and the Swordsman, and has become a popular actor in the entertainment circle.
After becoming famous, Fan Ming began to have more play dates, and his work was even more busy, which led to less time for him to spend with his family. In order to be able to accompany the family, in Han Leng summer vacation, it was received by his side.
Whenever he finished filming, Fan Ming would accompany Han Leng and take him for a walk around. Han Leng was accompanied by Fan Ming throughout the summer vacation. In the process, Han Leng also felt the love of the father. He felt that the right decision for his mother was to remarry Fan Ming.
Han Leng prefers his stepfather Fan Ming to his mother. As he grew older, Han Leng knew more and more and needed more things. Even though her son has grown up, Li Ling still retains her old idea, for example, pocket money has always been the standard of primary school status.
Sometimes, when Han Leng goes to his mother to ask for money, he will be rejected, even if he needs to buy something. Li Ling is a diligent and thrifty wife and mother, so she is very strict with her son, but she does not know that this has caused her son's dissatisfaction, and even there is a contradiction between the two.
In fact, Fan Ming sometimes secretly gave Han Leng money, but they all gave less, just because the money was caught by Li Ling, and sometimes when it was found, it would be said by Li Ling. In order to ease Han Leng's distress and the feelings between mother and son, Fan Ming can only do his wife's ideological work.
At first, Li Ling was not willing to listen to Fan Ming, but Fan Ming adopted a variety of methods to make Li Ling understand the changes of the times, which is no longer from their time. Not only that, Fan Ming also joined hands with Han Leng, the two sang a song and made Li Ling very happy, Han Leng's pocket money also increased a lot.
When Han Leng was an adult, he wanted to enlist in the army. After learning the stepson's idea, Fan Ming immediately said to him: Being a soldier is very hard. Can you bear it? Why don't we take a step back and take an examination of a university to find a stable job?
For his father's words, Han Leng did not flinch, more determined to become a soldier. Since Han Leng firmly said that he would join the army, his once good father was gone forever. He began to be strict with Han Leng, and even demanded Han Leng's words and deeds in accordance with the standards of the army. You know, Fan Ming is a soldier, and he knows very well how hard the training in the army is.
Fan Ming's change, also let Han Leng very uncomfortable, the two people also have friction. Even if Fan Ming knows that his stepson Han Leng hates him, he knows that only when he is strict can he have a better adaptation and have the ability to accept it in the army.
And Han Leng was only after joining the army and became a real soldier, only to reflect that his father was strict, not that he did not love himself, nor did he change his mind, but for himself in the future. In Han Leng's own words: I should really thank him.
In Fan Ming's life, he felt that it would be good for his family to be happy together. Now Fan Ming and Li Ling have been together for decades, still helping each other, love as before, stepson Han Leng also has his own family, the family lived a happy and enjoyable life.
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